
Support comes in many forms…
Hola beautiful goddesses!
This is a big one to write. A very big one.
Basically… to summarise…
*big breath*
I am now on email hiatus.
What does that mean?
From now on, I won’t be the Goddess Who Answers Emails. You’ll be taken care of by my lovely support crew instead.
Why oh why?
I’ve been wanting this for a really long time. Mostly because taking care of an inbox that can get up to 200 or so emails a day is incredibly draining.
And here’s the thing: I love, love, love what I do. I love Goddess Guidebook. I love what we are creating here. I love helping goddesses. I love creating lovely things that help goddesses. I love all of you.
But I don’t love getting drained. I don’t love opening up my emails and feeling utterly overwhelmed by all the emails. I don’t love that my inbox takes up 80% of my work time.
That’s really scary to write that… that 80% of my time spent in my passion is doing something that isn’t what I need to be doing.
I love love love connecting with all of you goddesses – but when it’s getting to the point that I’m wanting to cry when I think about my inbox? That’s just so not helpful… to you, or to me.
And I’ve got a list of sixty new projects that I want to be working on – ideas that totally fill my heart up with joy – things that goddesses keep asking me for – goodies that I think will really help more goddesses. And they aren’t getting done.
Plus… in about nine weeks or so, my whole life is about to change. Our Little Mermaid is due to arrive in the world, and needs me to be her mama.
There’s only so many things I can keep in my wagon… and email isn’t one of them.
When I was growing up, there were two things I wanted to be in the world:
an artist/writer/person who changes the world & a mama.
And I’m trying to work out how I can possibly do the two.
Right now? Totally not possible. Not if I’m doing everything. Not if I’m answering so many emails.
I need some more breathing space in my life. I need to know that I’m helping as many goddesses as I can with my time – not just mindlessly trying to get to Inbox Zen. I need to know I can have a business that doesn’t swallow me whole. I need to know I can be a good mama. I need to give precedence to Little Mermaid over my inbox.
How you are going to be taken care of
My biggest worry about this whole thing from this is making sure that all of you precious goddesses are taken care of.
I’ve enlisted a few beautiful souls who will be answering emails about:
- courses
- meditations
- kits
- advertising & sponsorship
- interviews.
There’s three lovely souls who will be helping out:

Goddess Sone is still running Goddess School for me and taking care of course emails.

And I’m so excited to announce the lovely Goddess Marissa will be a Support Sprite with emails.

And you may even hear from my sweet hunkaspunky Chris whenever I need his Tech Support God-ness.
Just to make it really beautiful and clear with good boundaries, my lovely Goddess (+God) support crew won’t be able to help with personal, spiritual or creative questions. They are there to make sure goddesses who have purchased goddess goodies are able to get them perfectly.
If you have a personal, spiritual, creative or other kind of question, the best way I can answer it is if you ask it here. It can be anonymous if you like. I try and answer them with blog posts as much as I can and where I have energy.
How to connect with me…
I still read every blog comment, and hang out in the Comments Circle as much as possible.
With more time and energy, I’ll be able to keep writing here at Goddess Guidebook – and hopefully write even more good yummy goddess helpfulness.
And be able to keep making kits and courses and meditations that really, really help lovely goddesses.
I’m so committed to our little temple of goddesses here. I’m also utterly committed to finding a way of living and working that is joyful and sustainable and possible for me.
The Way Forward…
So what’s really going to change here? Not really that much I hope!
I’ll still be here, blogging away.
And I’ll still be sitting in the Comments Circle.
And if you need a hand with your goddess goodies, you’ll be taken care of by some truly gorgeous souls. We’re just making the Goddess Guidebook family bigger… with all the more love to share around.
Got questions? To the comments circle, dearest!
Thank you so much for being here, sweet soul. I so hope you can understand my choices in this. It’s been such a big one that has sat on my heart for so long.
Thank you for understanding, for honouring… for walking this beautiful path with me.
big love to you,










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I understand completely ~
hugs ~ bobbie
PS ~ You have a little package on it’s way to you ~ could you ask one of your lovely souls to let me know when it arrives?
Thanks much!!!
b
Motherhood is a whole new level of goddesshood. You need to prepare for that, and it will take you time to figure out how to integrate everything. The circle you’ve created here will give you that.
Blessings to you.
Yay, Leonie!! Good for you for making this adjustment to support a life that supports you. *big smushy hugs* I adore you.
{{{Leonie}}}
Good on you for putting yourself and Little Mermaid first. I’m so excited for you on this new journey, and so glad that you’ve got the support there to let you make it safely and happily.
You are brilliant and wise beyond your years. Go forth brave one with what you need to do to be the best artist and mama you can be! (I’ll miss our little emails but I’ll follow you here.) Know that YOU are supported and loved too!
yes! so proud of you for doing this my dear!
way to take care of yourself and to clear some space to be able to create new joyful projects and to prepare for mama-goddesshood!
WOOOHOOO!!! Quite frankly I’m surprised you have been able to go this long answering personal emails and such. One on one communication w/ you is invaluable but all of us goddesses completely understand where you are coming from. Go forth Mama Goddess, into this new chapter of your life. Way to set brave, beautiful, bodacious boundaries for yourself! We “get it”. All is well.
Light & Love
Ashley Dawson
Thank you for taking care of yourself. Your gorgeous shining energy is always a blessing and and inspiration for me. It is good to see you nourishing it, you also remind me to make sure I’m nurturing my energy. (Plus tiny goddesses needs lots of time and preparing for!)
*big long exhale*
ahhhh… thank you so much goddess sisters…
for understanding so very much… and believing in self-nurturing too. i am so so grateful for you all…
and love you big…
feeling so very relieved and supported and loved tonight…
This post is so beautifully written. It’s lovely that you’ve taken the time to explain the change and I don’t blame you. Thank you for writing it.
Sending magical energizing sparkles to you and baby xo
What a beautiful living example you are already being for that beautiful merbaby! I think she made a great choice in picking her mama. I find it fascinating that as you get closer to your birthing date you are naturally openning space in your life.
Yay for taking care of yourself (and your merbaby) — it’s inspiring to all of us! Rock on!
Cheers,
~R
Way to take care of beautiful you! Enjoy spending more focused time on your gorgeous work and being held – and knowing we are held – in the arms of such lovely goddess support.
Hoorah!
Hiatus is a fun word!
Yay!
Bravo, Leonie. You have a beautiful mermaid coming into the world..you need your energy there and doing other creative projects for your business.
Congratulations on taking the next step to take care of you and your little mermaid.
I totally understand and cannot imagine dealing with 200+ emails a day, personally. (When I read that, I said, “Yikes!” out loud.)
Goddess Leonie!
Congratulations for having the courage to step away! So many spirit minded biz owners stay stuck and overwhelmed because they feel so strongly about helping everyone with everything! They don’t realize by letting some things go, they make space to help in BIGGER ways. I love that you have let go of the email and I look forward to the new BIG Goddessy Momma ways you will be supporting the rest of us Goddesses in the future!
Blessings and Light!
Kim
dearest one with wee precious one, you are being so brilliant & brave!…& i love your new decision about sundays as well that you wrote about in an earlier post…i so closely relate with feeling overwhelmed with all there is to tend to & how to preserve still my energy & dreams to love the world with. i send a blowing kiss with wishes for full refreshment. x
Having sent you an email over the weekend, I feel a tad guilty for adding to the overflow
I totally applaud your decision and the level of courage and trust you exemplify by taking a step back and for seeking support. Yes, your mama’s muscles are already very strong! You inspire others to know nurturing oneself is the ONLY way to be present enough and able to care for others.
Hope you are taking a meditation nap now
I am so grateful for all of you… and you know… reading your words… I realise this might not just be something that I’ve struggled with… as funny as that is to say… but that we all have those things we feel we should be doing that don’t contribute to our quality of life and living…
I did also want to make sure every goddess knows my email still works… and I do love hearing suggestions… they will just be taken care of by the ever lovely Marissa now
And sweet Goddess Lis ~ oh my goodness darling… please no guiltiness… I totally loved your email and have been trying to think of ways to make it work! *big hug you* I adore you!
*group hugs!*
I cannot wait to read your birth story and see photos of your new family once the little mermaid angel arrives.
These last weeks are so crucial for you to rest and prepare and do what brings you joy and peace and rest. You are so wise to rest and pull back and ask for help. You have so much support as you feel your way into this new and amazing phase of your life.
FYI – When I was young, the only thing on my list was “being a mama.” I went thru a brief phase of wishing I could be a doctor – until I took physics in college. I was a Spanish teacher for four years. And then I became a mama. No turning back, no turning back.
Again, peace be yours in this next phase of your amazing goddess journey.
*hugs* I completely understand!
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