I’ve been ensconced in the creative cave over the last six weeks… writing and illustrating new sections for the 2020 workbooks.
And I keep wanting to write to you all, but brain is currently going:
BREEEP BOOOOP WEEEEEB.
It’s not in writing shape at the moment.
It mostly just wants to lay down and have a look at a wall.
And part of me wants to fret and freak out that I’ve lost the creative spark.
And then the rational, gentle part of me gently reminds the other parts of me:
Mate, you just did six intense weeks of rewriting the workbooks. You can calm down, oh ye of little faith!
Do you ever experience that?
When you’re tired, or exhausted, or out of steam, or out of inspiration…
begin panicking about that and wondering if it will ever be different…
and then realising:
Oh, there’s actually a really valid reason you’re feeling that way. And it’s not always going to be that way. Right now, the best thing might be just to look at a wall, refill that cup.
The 2019 workbooks are already released, and doing beautifully.
And I really need to start actually promoting them and getting them into the world.
But I’ve been swamped with thinking about the 2020 rewrite, and I find it hard to balance two priorities at the same time. I like to do deep dives into things.
Anyways, I’m really happy with how these workbooks have turned out. And it’s a joy to have them at a publishing house. Go buy them, PLEASE!! That way the publishers will take on more of my books… including the Shining Year diary/planners!
It’s been 5 months since we moved (!)
It feels like a lifetime and last week. It’s still a joy to be here.
The tropical beach life is something I don’t think I can ever part with again. The greens and the blues just make my eyes light up.
We will probably end up buying an acreage here soon enough… still in this area, just with some more land around us. We love acreage living too much to give the dream up!
My kids are happy, delicious souls.
It’s been 18 months since we started homeschooling, and it’s been chock full of beautiful moments. I am so glad we took the leap!
AND I am also totally happy if we decide to do a return to school as well. I don’t want to prescribe to a cult of thought that there is only one right way to do anything.
It’s been a funny thing – I’ve shared so much about my kids online in the early years. But over the last couple of years, I’ve really felt the need to shift and be much more private.
I remember Dooce wrote a blog post yearrrrrrrs ago about this feeling. She talked about how openly she wanted to talk in the early years of parenting, because we’re basically just talking about universal baby and toddler features of tantrums and poop that everyone goes through. But as her eldest daughter grew up, and developed her own personality quirks, Heather didn’t feel like she could share about her as openly without impinging on her daughter’s privacy.
It’s stuck in my head, and has been the same for me. My kids are 4 and 8 now. It’s less about developmental stages and more about individuality now. And they get to keep that and share that with the ones they love.
Just because their Mama signed up to be a somewhat public figure, doesn’t mean they did.
I’d like to clarify by saying: If you have a different view of sharing your kids online, that’s rad. I’m tired enough by parenting to worry about how anybody else wants to parent. Ha!
How do I feel about closing down my Academy?
Groovy! Gentle and luxurious.
I’m still producing courses and doing coaching calls for it right up until September next year.
But it feels good to have created the space for something new to come through.
I read this piece by Cheryl Strayed in the latest Dumbo Feather magazine and it totally resonated.
She talks about her decision to close down the Dear Sugars podcast even though it was so popular so she could create new things. It’s why I closed my Academy down… saying goodbye to a good love. It was a hard decision to make because it was so good… but as a creator I needed to make space for what was next. Even though I’m not sure what that is next.
Things I’ve been reading/watching:
- I’ve loved SARK’s blog posts about falling in love again
- White Fragility
- Why I’m No Longer Talking To White People About Race
- Re-watching Schitt’s Creek while I wait for the new series to come out
- Trying not to fall down the rabbit hole of binge watching (again) the entire The Office series again, because that would mean whole months of my life gone… just watching a couple shows a week (ha!)
That’s about all my bleep blooping brain has in it.
Once I’ve got these books off to the publishers next week I should have some more brain space for more regular love letters and the like!
In the meantime… I’m sending you all so much love and gladness!